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4.3.13It happened to me (again) this past Sunday. That awkward moment when you introduce yourself to a new couple at church, and they tell you they met you last week. Mike and Shelly. I won’t forget their names anytime soon. Here’s how the conversation went:

 

ME: Hey, I don’t think I’ve met you. My name’s Josh.

MIKE and SHELLY: Yeah, we met last week when you introduced yourself to us.

(awkward silence as I try to figure out how to get out of this social snafu). Thankfully, they threw me a lifeline:

MIKE and SHELLY: I’m sure you meet a lot of new people each week and it’s tough to keep all their names straight.

ME: Yes, but I’m sorry I forgot yours.

 

As the conversation went on, our conversation from last week came to mind, and I was able to add enough tidbits to make sure they knew that I did in fact remember meeting them last week (although belatedly).

Some people are afraid to meet new people at church because they’re afraid they’d make a fool of themselves. Take it from me, sometimes that happens. But it can’t stop you from doing your part and making newcomers feel welcome. And if you do embarrass yourself, don’t worry. I’ve done much worse.

QUESTION: Have you ever had a similar experience at church?

 

Today’s guest post is by Brandon Yopp, Student Pastor at Mt Vernon Church. You can find him on Twitter here:

While I was out of town visiting family, I decided to visit a local “contemporary” church that I had heard a lot about, but had never attended.  Bethany and I went to church and left the kids at home with their grandmother, unsure of the quality of childcare and just excited to be a part of a worship service where I had no responsibilities!

We arrived just a few minutes before the service started and began the dreaded “first time guest” walk up to the church. It’s that awkward moment when you feel like the new kid at the school cafeteria, desperately trying to find a safe place to sit before nauseous shame overwhelms you. The building and the modern styling of the church impressed me.  They had a couple of men who opened the doors and welcomed us in.  I immediately noticed a huge, beautiful coffee area with a plethora of options.  Being a member of Mt Vernon, I felt I had a duty to test every kind of coffee they had!  However, it was time for the service to start and no one offered to show me the coffee area.  So, we headed to the worship center.

Being a student pastor I plan and execute the student worship services every week.  I cannot help but take notes to critique other services in order to help gain new ideas about what to do and what to avoid.  As Bethany and I left, we began to discuss the service.

For the first time, in a long time, I was in the shoes of a first time guest.  I had no idea how great Mt Vernon is and how blessed I am to serve with such a wonderful church!  I begin to critique Mt Vernon from the perspective that I had just gained as a first time guest.  I have grown accustomed to being greeted as soon as I enter the parking lot and never having to open a door.  I feel safe and confident leaving my children in Discovery Zone because I know they will be loved and cared for.

I know that I have taken for granted the professionalism and poise with which Josh and Jordan lead the service.  If you notice there is almost no dead time and certainly no awkward silence.  The service flows, and there is never a time where a guest feels isolated.  Josh preaches biblically and includes a lot of life application.  I am not insinuating that Mt Vernon has arrived or is the only church that has it right.  I am saying that I am so glad that I get to serve at Mt Vernon and with such great people!

12.17.12Here’s part of an email our church recently received, “Thank you for making us feel so welcomed, we have been enjoying the church services and my heart is so happy that my children are also enjoying it too!” This is from a family who’s recently attended and has decided to make Mt Vernon their church home. What helped make the difference? We knew their names.

This family came late to our 10:30 service, dropping their kids off and slipping in before anyone could properly greet them. But our staff are highly trained welcoming ninjas. They will not let a new couple go away ungreeted! At the end of the service, while our Worship Pastor was closing out the service, one of our staff informed me that we had a new couple that came in late, but we didn’t know their names. They had kids, however, that they had registered in our children’s environments. Checkmate.

I quickly walked over to our children’s environment, got the names of the kids and the parents when they registered. By the time they came to pick them up, I was ready for them. I greeted them by name and talked with them for about five minutes. They couldn’t get out of our building without two or three other couples coming up and introducing themselves.

Two weeks later, they were back. This time to stay. They’ve found their home at Mt Vernon. Once we knew their name, they were family. Do whatever you have to do to learn someone’s name.

QUESTION: Has knowing someone’s name ever helped you connect someone with your church?

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Five for Friday

October 5, 2012 — Leave a comment

While I’m out of town, here are a couple of links to keep you thinking. Have a great weekend and see you Sunday (Mt Vernon folks)!

Coming Clean – Popular author Max Lucado talks about his recent struggle with alcohol. Incredible courage from such a public figure.

5 Things Scripture Teaches Us About Governments – As the 2012 election heats up, good reminders for all.

What I Learned as a Sunday Sinner – Shockingly real testimony of someone visiting a new church for the first time. Hope it wasn’t yours.

Church Communication Hero G.K. Chesterton – What can we learn from this ancient preacher?

What if We Did the Opposite in Missions? – Intriguing article about a different way to look at missions.